How to inform family and friends about a memorial Mass or anniversary

By Daniele Staiano · Last updated: 13 July 2026

Many families wish to remember someone dear after the funeral by arranging a memorial Mass, a Month’s Mind or an anniversary service.

Some families also gather on the person’s birthday, turning the date into a moment of prayer, remembrance and closeness.

What is a Month’s Mind?

A Month’s Mind is a memorial service traditionally held around one month after the person’s passing. For many families it is the first shared occasion of remembrance after the funeral.

The anniversary of their passing

A memorial anniversary gives relatives and friends an opportunity to gather quietly and remember the person. The occasion may be religious or simply commemorative, according to the family’s wishes.

Remembering a birthday

Some families also arrange a Mass or gathering on the person’s birthday. The date can become an opportunity to remember their life, relationships and the moments shared together.

Why it can be difficult to inform everyone

Relatives and friends may live in different towns or countries. Calling everyone takes time and can lead to incomplete or inconsistent information. One clear notice can include the date, time and place of the service.

A discreet way to share the details

A digital memorial card can present the photograph, name, date, time, place and chosen message in one elegant composition.

How the UltimoSaluto® assisted service works

The family sends a photograph, the person’s name, the date and time, the church or venue, the chosen message or prayer and any style preferences. UltimoSaluto® prepares the design.

Usually ready within 48 hours

Once the photograph and complete information have been received, the digital memorial card is usually prepared within 48 hours and is ready to share.

How it can be used

It can be shared by WhatsApp or email, sent to family groups, kept on a phone or computer, displayed in a digital frame or printed later.

Why families choose this option

A single digital card helps everyone receive the same information, reduces repeated calls and communicates the occasion in a calm, elegant and respectful way.